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THERE IS ALWAYS A SECOND OPINION AND A THIRD AND A FOURTH......
First Step
"We admit that we are powerless in the face of difficulty, that Our lives have become unmanageable.”
Second Step
“We came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity.”
Third Step
" “We Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God.”
Fourth Step.
“We Made A searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves”
Taking responsability of our doings and deciding to exchange them for Jesus doings. Christian pattern in our lives will lead us to God directions and kingdown. When we identify our weakness we can fall in Gods strenght. It is our identity versus His identity, who I say I am versus who He says I am.
"Challenges of Step Four in AA
Mental barriers and a lack of personal responsibility can cause major challenges in Alcoholics Anonymous Step 4. Many participants have spent a long amount of time justifying their behavior and must focus extremely hard on being completely honest with themselves to gain the benefits of step 4 of AA" (taked from: https://alcohol.org/alcoholics-anonymous/step-4/)